Ep 15: Coaching in the Unknown: Releasing Fixed Identities
Entrepreneurship • Nov 27, 2025 11:47:13 AM • Written by: Erin Aquin
In this episode of the Coaching Mixer podcast, Erin Aquin and Elana McKernin explore how spirituality, identity, and belief show up in coaching, and how to hold space without slipping into persuasion or projection. They dive into the power of not knowing, the stories clients bring into sessions, and how curiosity can transform even tightly held identities.
In this episode, you will discover:
- How to work with the unknown without collapsing into certainty or avoidance
- Ways to use your spirituality and creative practices to inform your coaching
- What “choosing beliefs on purpose” looks like in real life
- How to use a client’s belief system, including astrology, diagnoses, or spiritual archetypes, without reinforcing limiting patterns
- Why coercion hides inside some forms of spiritual coaching, and how to avoid it
- Practical ways to help clients access the strengths inside the identities they cling to
- How to protect the coaching space as a site of exploration, not persuasion
Erin Aquin is a Master Certified Life Coach and co-author of the #1 bestseller "Superabound: Live the Life the Universe is Dreaming For You." She provides whole life coaching for business owners, integrating success and personal fulfillment through her unique all-in-one approach.
Learn more at besuperabound.com
Elana McKernan is a Master Certified Life and Creativity Coach who specializes in helping perfectionists create more by treating themselves better. You can check out her free content here and learn more about coaching with her here.
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