This week's episode takes on toxic positivity, not to bash optimism, but to untangle when “staying positive” actually blocks honesty, safety, and real change in coaching relationships. Erin and Elana explore how coaches can hold nuance, complexity, and emotion without rushing clients toward silver linings.
What “toxic positivity” really is—and why it often comes from self-protection, not bad intent
How positivity can quietly disconnect clients from what they’re actually experiencing
Why emotional grit is often easier to coach than polished optimism
How coaches may unintentionally signal which emotions are “allowed” in the room
The subtle difference between respecting a client’s readiness and pushing for depth
What it actually takes to create a space where clients don’t have to edit themselves
This conversation is especially relevant for coaches working with leaders, founders, and high-functioning clients who’ve learned to keep it together at all costs.
Erin Aquin is a Master Certified Life Coach and co-author of the #1 bestseller "Superabound: Live the Life the Universe is Dreaming For You." She provides whole life coaching for business owners, integrating success and personal fulfillment through her unique all-in-one approach.
Learn more at besuperabound.com
Elana McKernan is a Master Certified Life and Creativity Coach who specializes in helping perfectionists create more by treating themselves better. You can check out her free content here and learn more about coaching with her here.
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